New KFF/YM Magazine National Survey of Teens on Dating, Intimacy, and Sexual Experiences:



45. When you've been alone with a (girl/boy) being intimate, how often have you felt. (Insert)-often, sometimes, hardly ever, or never?

Based on those who have had an intimate encounter; n=491

	Boys		Girls		Total
a.  Worried about how your body looks	15		33		24		Often
	23		34		28		Sometimes
	21		16		19		Hardly Ever
	40		18		29		Never
	0		0		0		Don't know
	0		*		*		Refused
b.  You're not in control of the situation	5		8		6		Often
	20		20		20		Sometimes
	26		26		25		Hardly Ever
	48		48		48		Never
	1		0		*		Don't know
	0		*		*		Refused
c.  Hopeful that intimacy will improve your relationship with the (girl/boy)	15		6		11		Often
	31		22		27		Sometimes
	24		21		23		Hardly Ever
	29		50		38		Never
	1		1		1		Don't know
	0		*		*		Refused
d.  Worried the (girl/boy) will think you aren't experienced enough	5		9		7		Often
	20		18		19		Sometimes
	24		26		22		Hardly Ever
	50		51		50		Never
	*		1		*		Don't know
	0		*		*		Refused
e.  Worried about seeming too experienced	5		2		4		Often
	13		7		10		Sometimes
	20		17		19		Hardly Ever
	61		73		67		Never
	*		1		*		Don't know
	0		0		0		Refused
f.  Worried about whether you can trust the (girl/boy)	16		25		20		Often
	33		32		32		Sometimes
	20		18		19		Hardly Ever
	31		26		29		Never
	*		0		*		Don't know
	0		0		0		Refused
g.  That the (girl/boy) does not respect you	7		8		8		Often
	16		23		19		Sometimes
	22		23		22		Hardly Ever
	55		45		50		Never
	*		0		*		Don't know
	0		0		0		Refused
h.  Worried about what your friends will think	6		13		9		Often
	18		22		20		Sometimes
	21		19		20		Hardly Ever
	56		47		51		Never
	0		0		0		Don't know
	0		0		0		Refused
i.  Worried you are leading the (girl/boy) on	9		5		8		Often
	23		24		23		Sometimes
	22		26		24		Hardly Ever
	46		45		45		Never
	0		0		0		Don't know
	0		0		0		Refused